A photographer and a woman at a wedding, both smiling and holding hands, with the photographer wearing a black hat with fringe, large earrings, and bold jewelry, and the woman in a black dress with large earrings.
A smiling man with curly hair and a woman with black hair in traditional Asian attire, hugging, against a city background with a pink poster on the left and a blue wall behind them.
A happy couple is kissing in front of a pink wall covered with graffiti and stickers. The woman has blonde hair and is wearing a blue hooded jacket and red lipstick. The man has curly brown hair and is wearing a red blazer over a white shirt. The text on the image reads: "Sydney Wedding Photographer" and "CAPTIVASABLI".
People dancing at a colorful wedding reception with pink, purple, and orange decorations, including shiny disco balls, and a bouquet of flowers held up in the background. The text overlays read 'Sydney Wedding Photographer' and 'Caputrasabi'.
A man and woman sitting on a bed holding vegetables, with a bouquet of flowers at their feet. The woman is wearing a blue dress and a veil, and the man is wearing a colorful suit. Behind them are framed posters on the wall, and the text at the bottom reads: 'Sydney Wedding Photographer Gabriel Asabi'.
Two men kissing at a wedding celebration, with a background of a bar and a colorful sign that reads 'Sydney Wedding Photographer' and 'Carmel'.
Two women, one in a red dress and the other in a white dress, with pink veils, are touching noses in a colorful outdoor setting with decorative jewelry and greenery.
Two men smiling and looking at each other, dressed in colorful clothing, holding bouquets of flowers, in a room decorated with paintings and a lamp. Overlaid text reads: 'Sydney Wedding Photographer CarlitaSabi'.
People celebrating at a wedding, with confetti falling and a floral arch in the background.

Two women with short hair, wearing colorful outfits, are kissing in a kitchen with open shelves. The woman on the left is in a green dress, and the woman on the right is in a white top and magenta skirt. The image is a cover for a wedding photography book titled "CARIÜTASI."
A couple dressed in wedding attire leaning in close inside a grocery store aisle, with shelves stocked with canned goods and other products. The bride has curly blonde hair, tattoos, and is wearing a white dress, while the groom has dark hair and is wearing a black suit with pearl necklaces.
A man and a woman are sitting at a table, with the woman holding a tomato in her hand. There are two framed pictures of tomatoes and oranges hanging on the wall behind them. The text overlay reads "Sydney Wedding Photographer Çarşafı".
Two women dressed in colorful clothing and pink veils kissing each other in a narrow, decorated outdoor space with plants and framed pictures on the wall. The photo is labeled as a Sydney wedding photographer's work with the name 'CARLITA ŞAİR' in bold yellow text at the bottom.
Two men dressed in colorful, eccentric clothing and hats, sharing a drink with ice in a glass, in a lively setting with framed artwork on the wall behind them.
Close-up of a couple with dark skin dressed in vibrant pink clothing, standing closely and gazing into each other's eyes, surrounded by black and white foliage. The man wears large earrings, layered necklaces, and a pink robe, while the woman has braids, a pink dress, and tulle accents.
A couple holding hands at a wedding reception surrounded by falling confetti with a decorated arch in the background.
A couple smiling and embracing at a wedding. The woman is wearing a bright orange dress with yellow ruffled fabric, and the man is dressed in a colorful, patterned jacket with a yellow shirt. They are standing outside against a backdrop of blue brick wall and a pink sign.
Two men kissing at a wedding reception with glasses of champagne and a blurred bar in the background.
A man and woman kissing at a wedding, with the woman wearing a red veil and dress, and the man in a black suit indoor, with a curtain background, and a table with a cake in the foreground.
A woman and a man holding hands and smiling in a dimly lit room. The woman is wearing a black dress with cutouts and large earrings, while the man is dressed in a sheer black shirt, paisley pants, and a hat with fringe. They are at a wedding event, as indicated by the text on the image.

welcome to the world of wedding
photography done differently.

Hello my darlings, I’m Carly, I live in Sydney’s inner-west (but will travel, yes!) I’m a Queer ally, neuro-spicy literate, a lover of all people, and all things artistic, alternative and non-traditional. From festival weddings, to breweries, backyards, warehouses or whatever lights you up; I get a kick out of helping people reimagine norms and make magic doing things their way. My photography style is both emotive and creative. A documentary of all the candid goodness that unfolds on your day, whilst also playful, artful, cheeky and joy-filled. If you’re looking for a heart-led photographer whose work is real and raw; yet also knows how to beckon all the colour, fun and magic out of your community; you’re in luck my treasures.

As Seen In

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  • A dark, empty room with a table and a chair, dimly lit by a single window.
  • A city skyline at sunset with tall buildings and water in the foreground.
  • A black-and-white drawing of a bird, possibly a seagull, with its wings spread open.
  • A hand holding a pen, writing on a notepad with a laptop in the background.
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  • The image is completely black with no visible objects or details.
  • A black dog sitting on a blanket outdoors with a person in navy clothing and trees in the background.
  • A sheet of paper with financial charts, graphs, and notes.
  • Text that reads 'Apex Robotics' in black font on a white background.
  • Person with closed eyes, wearing a red textured jacket, pearl necklace, and earrings, inside a building with blurry background.
  • An elderly woman with gray hair smiling with eyes closed, dressed in a black top, purple and gold skirt, and a green scarf with a red pin, sitting outdoors at an event with other people and flowers around.
  • Two women hugging at a social gathering, smiling and holding a drink, with other people mingling in the background.
  • A man with a beard in beige pants and a light grey shirt is sitting on a chair, with a woman with red hair, tattoos, and wearing a red dress and a white veil sitting behind him, her arm resting on his shoulder. They are in an indoor setting with plants and a staircase in the background.
  • A young man with a black and white keffiyeh headscarf hugging an elderly woman, both with eyes closed, in an embrace in a warmly lit indoor setting. Another woman with blonde hair is visible on the right, holding white flowers.

Photo GalleRy

NICHES ARE FOR CAPITALISM. Your LOVE DOESN’T NEED A NICHE — IT CAN HAVE IT ALL.

I believe your photo gallery can be creative, fabulous and alive with cinema, whilst still being an authentic documentary of emotions and storytelling.

My couples come to me because I understand the ick with wedding photos, and have (literally) made it my business to create striking, fun-filled, photos brimming with life and colour - that actually feel like you.

My couples come to me because I deliver photos they can feeeeeeel. Photos that make them weep, giggle and squeal with joy. That catapult them back into magical moments with the people they love every time they look at them.

And if you want the same, my darlings, you’re in the right place. But don’t take my word for it. Go take a stroll through this garden of galleries and see for yourself.

Full Gallery
Couple holding hands and smiling at their wedding reception, surrounded by confetti and guests celebrating.
Two men in tuxedos, one with a beard and the other with white hair, standing outdoors with green foliage in the background. The man with white hair has his head resting on the shoulder of the man with a beard, both showing signs of affection and closeness.
Two women kissing in a kitchen, holding hands, with open shelves and kitchen items in the background.
A woman kissed a man on the cheek, with her arms around his neck, while he sits on the ground. The man is shirtless and wearing black pants, with jewelry and a pink shirt draped over his shoulders. The background features a yellow and orange fabric and rocky terrain.
Two people with colorful, vintage-inspired clothing brushing their teeth in front of a mirror, surrounded by vibrant flowers.
A smiling woman in a white wedding dress holds a child, and another woman in a cream-colored suit grabs the hand of a woman with short gray hair and a white dress, all standing outdoors near a green lawn with a body of water and hills in the background.
A man and a woman are standing close in a grocery store aisle, about to kiss. The woman is wearing a light-colored dress and pearl necklace, holding a jar of fruit preserves. The man is dressed in a black blazer with pearl necklaces. They are surrounded by shelves of canned goods and snacks.
Two women in traditional Japanese kimonosJoyfully splashing in the ocean at sunset, on a sandy beach.
A man and a woman sitting side by side, drinking from white teacups. The man is wearing a black suit with a pink flower boutonniere and a floral tie, while the woman is dressed in a white dress with lace sleeves, pearl necklace, and floral tattoos on her arms. They are in a vintage store with teal walls and shelves filled with various decorative items and pottery.
Three people embracing and smiling, with two wearing elaborate costumes, outdoors on grass near trees.
Two women hugging and smiling at an outdoor gathering, one wearing a yellow dress and the other with short curly hair and colorful makeup, with a house and patio furniture in the background.

Hello, I’m Carly

and I believe weddings belong to everyone. No one should get to gatekeep nor dictate how we celebrate love. It’s something ancient, sacred and innate to all of us…

humans have been gathering, ritualising and intentionally celebrating love since The beginning of time

And I’m so obsessed with permissing you to untangle from norms that don’t resonate, and reimagine your wedding in a way that feels uniquely, authentically you.. that I went and married 40 of my friends in my dream wedding as inspo! Read more on this and our ethos below.

Ethos
A woman with a colorful headscarf, wearing a floral top and necklaces, holding a tray with a beer bottle and glasses.
A group of diverse friends are hugging each other closely and smiling joyfully at a party or gathering indoors. The background is blurry with warm lighting and wall decorations.
A woman in a white dress and a man in a blue suit dance happily in a cafe, with the man lifting his arms and the woman smiling with her eyes closed.
A woman with curly hair wearing a sleeveless dress, holding a drink, standing in a smoky, colorful nightclub or party scene, illuminated by green and blue lights, with people in the background.
People standing in a line outdoors, holding hands above their heads in a triangular formation, smiling, celebrating, and enjoying a group activity.
Two men smiling and laughing, one in a light-colored suit with a boutonnière, and the other in a black jacket, holding a large bouquet of colorful flowers in a city street with blurred background lights.
Two women, one in pink and the other in yellow traditional attire, smile at each other while exchanging a wrapped gift in a warmly lit room with mirrors and decor.

The experience in their words

Featured
Clare & Kelly-anne

★★★★★

I never do reviews…it takes something pretty remarkable to prompt me; and I honestly can’t recommend Carly enough. I’m a photo-phobe, it was the part I was dreading most about our wedding. Yet somehow Carly and her magic made me LOVE it. The banter, the laughs, the warmth and the creativity is second to none! If you are looking for someone to trust to capture your special moments, who brings such a beautifully calm and cheeky chilled vibe with her wherever she goes.. look no further. Queer weddings, lesbian weddings, straight weddings, upside down weddings…Carly is your gal.

Liam & Sam

★★★★★

We knew we wanted to get married, but a lot of what we saw in the wedding industry didn’t resonate with our vibe. We wanted a sick-ass party. With our people, minus the stiff formality. We were gunning for fabulousness; the elevated feels of a wedding, without all the wank. Think doof vibes but glamour. Ceremony in nature loaded with sass and silliness. After party in a cosy venue with DIY sound systems, friends on the decks,  deconstructed, decentralised roles, dance and performances, and as much community participation as possible. Carly was the dream wedding photographer for all of this. From planning, to hacks, to general human energy rad-ness. She’s lived, breathed, worked in these spaces and it shows. Her input was invaluable and the end result, the photos - made us cry. She’s not just your dream wedding photographer, she’s an essential ingredient in cultivating the love spell of your DREAMS. Bravo Carly. Chef’s kiss.

Simone & Ghassan

★★★★★

Thank you Carly for being our dream wedding photographer! Not only were you responsive, attentive, thoughtful, organised and warm; you made planning our DIY, backyard-festival style wedding FUN and immediately understood the queer-friendly, alternative, playful and candid style of wedding photography we were looking for. The photos capture our energy, community and hearts perfectly. Your ability to find authentic moments and translate them into permanent memories is a SUPERPOWER! Thank you for also being such a calming and reassuring presence throughout the day, when things got a bit stressful (as they often do with weddings!), so we could just enjoy the amazing experience. We love you!

Theresa & Jake

★★★★★

Carly is absolutely amazing. One of those few souls you meet in your life who are just extra special. She really takes the time to get to know you and your family and friends, and to make them all feel so seen and comfortable. Her photography skills are incredible. Her photos made me cry, they made me laugh and I think it takes someone very special and talented to create that and really bring the photographs back into real memories and emotions. She is just magical. Thank you Carly xx

Manoli & Cat

★★★★★

Hiring Carly was hands down the best decision we made. Not just a wedding photographer with extraordinary talent, but your best friend in those moments when you need support the most. On the day people warmed to her instantly and their joy was palpable from afar. Carly has mastered the balance of giving direction where needed AND making people feel seen, supported and beautiful. 

The results are in the photographs. When we first received them we cried. She had captured so many truly magical moments. So vivid were the feelings in each, we were immediately transported back. We couldn’t be more thankful to Carly and couldn’t recommend her enough for your wedding, festival or party. She is an artist spreading the joy that the world needs. 

You’re the best, Carly!

Suzana & Nuno

★★★★★

Where to begin? To describe our experience with Carly as incredible would simply be an understatement. On our wedding day, Carly’s energy was vivacious, her work was so professional and her benevolence radiated abundantly all day and night. Carly beautifully captured our special moments and went above and beyond to ensure we were ecstatic with the final wedding photographs. We couldn’t recommend her enough!

Richard & Zain

★★★★★

If you are reading this, call or email Carly right now and book her! Carly was brilliant, so delightful, kind, fun, organised… and we were BLOWN AWAY with the magic moments and priceless, treasured memories she captured. Book this amazing lady for your wedding photography, and I can assure you will be delivered memories you’ll treasure the rest of your life. Carly, thank you so much from Zain and I from the bottom of our hearts. We are beyond stoked with what you delivered from our special day. Thank you thank you THANK YOU xox

Angel & Raquel

★★★★★

We didn’t just want a wedding, we wanted full wedding festival. We wanted to really drop in with our people over multiple days and create an immersive experience. Carly’s background in the bush doof scene and her work in the Arts really spoke to us. That was before we met her. Her energy is contagious and inspiring and makes you feel that everything is not just going to be ok… it’s going to be fabulous! We saw what she did with her own wedding (marrying a tonne of her friends on her dream island in what can only be described as the best shroom trip you’ve ever been on) and we were like YES. We need a human who can help us create this, not only capture it. And holy macaroni did she excel on ALL fronts. Feeling forever blessed and obsessed with the outcome!

Jacqui & Adam

★★★★★

Carly was an absolute dream to work with and we’re obsessed with our wedding photos! Carly was magical- unobtrusive and intuitive; she captured all of our special moments without us even noticing. She guided us in subtle ways to get the best angles which felt so incredibly natural. She can absolutely work a crowd and get people laughing and being their best selves. Honestly we could not be happier with our photos. Friends have even said they’re the best wedding photos they’ve ever seen 🥰

Layth & Hannah

★★★★★

The VERY best wedding photographer ever! Carly has phenomenal talent. We have looked at our wedding photos a million times and never tire of it, the photos capture magical micro-moments you see more of everytime you revisit them. If you don’t want boring, generic, wedding photos, then Carlita Sari is the one for you. She’s also just an incredible person, generous and so authentically warm and open. Everyone loved her, even our dogs and the toddlers! She brought kindness and love to everyone and honestly it shows in the photos.

Shirley & Ryan

★★★★★

Carly is truly magical 💫 She’s full of energy and warmth that creates wonderful excitement while also bringing a beautiful sense of calm; she’s one of those people that you feel completely at ease with straight away. We were blown away by the photos of our Sydney Wedding. They captured the energy, joy, and love of the big moments as well as all the incredible little candids and details; Carly somehow captured it all. We had so much fun with her, she’s a great communicator, organised, warm, trustworthy and always kind. We feel so grateful (& clever!)  to have booked her. She’s an artist who will wrap you and your loved ones in the warmest embrace. Thank you SO much Carly 💕

Nadine & Richie

★★★★★

Carly is the most amazing wedding photographer; her ability to catch true and beautiful emotions is by far the best I have seen. We are so, so, so incredibly happy with our wedding photos! It was exactly what I wanted, raw, authentic moments, no poses, just beauty and realness.

Nicola & Ryan

★★★★★

We had the most magical wedding and so much of that was to do with Carly! From the first phone call I knew we had to go with her. She’s so supportive through the whole process and had amazing tips and hacks for how to make our day run smoothly and allow us to just be with our people more, the thing that meant most to us. Perfect doesn’t even begin to describe the photos - we want to print them all! All our guests loved Carly too, including our young 8 and 6 year old neighbours who helped us get ready. You need Carly’s talent, magic and kindness to capture your special moments.

Liv & Saurabh

★★★★★

Omg do yourself a solid and book Carly immediately! She photographed our celebration so candidly and beautifully. The photos are full of fun, joy, love, playfulness and allllll the emotions. Her understanding of light brings magic into each photograph and gives them an artistic quality. Not only is she oh so talented- she is an absolute delight of a person to work with. We will definitely use her again and could not recommend her highly enough.

A person laughing outdoors surrounded by green and yellow leaves, wearing bold earrings, a pearl choker, a gold satin jacket with a pin, and black patterned pants.
Two boys sitting on a green bench outdoors, one young boy with a cap, beige jacket, and muddy pants, and an older boy with a cap, beige shirt, and black pants.
A woman with tattoos and jewelry smiling while holding a large pink bow at a social gathering, with several men in the background.
A woman in a dazzling, sequined, and beaded outfit with a dramatic, gold and black cape posing in a sunlit forest with a man in a tropical shirt who is pointing in her direction, both smiling.
A wedding celebration outdoors with a bride and groom walking through a shower of confetti, surrounded by friends and family smiling and celebrating on a sunny day.
A man in a suit and a woman in a red dress playing with bubble guns at an outdoor event, with bubbles floating in the air.
A woman dressed as a bride with a veil and jewelry, joyful and smiling, leaning on a man with a bald head and mustache, who is playing slot machines in a casino.
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Creative ENGAGEMENT Shoots & arts/event photography

As well as photographing Weddings I also shoot for The Arts and offer Creative Engagement Sessions. My Arts clients include Opera Australia (of Sydney Opera House), Sydney Theatre Company, Marrugeku, Biennale of Sydney, Festival of Dangerous Ideas and more. The Creative Engagement sessions are a fun-flavoured opportunity to explore more artistic and editorial ideas outside of wedding photography. They can be as silly or delicious as you like! We go hunting for inspo in pop-culture references and (most importantly) your own story. Check them out below:

Creative Engagement Shoots
Arts & Events
Two women wearing colorful summer clothing and headscarves having a water fight outside during sunset. One woman is laughing while the other is drinking from a bottle, holding a garden hose, with water splashing around them.
A performer dressed in animal print costume and body paint, kneeling on the ground with mouth open, against a dark background.
Woman dressed in pink and white with iridescent and neon elements, wearing a heart-shaped light on her chest, pink fluffy skirt, and heart-shaped headband, at an outdoor event.
A woman dressed in a metallic, futuristic costume with green braided hair and a headpiece, smiling and dancing at a lively event surrounded by other colorful, festive costumes.
A man in a tuxedo is holding a silver mask in front of his face, partially covering it, in a dimly lit setting.
Two women with pink headbands kiss in a backyard during sunset, wearing colorful clothing and Crocs, with a lawnmower and laundry hanging in the background.
Two women are outdoors in a garden, one pouring water into the other's open mouth. The woman on the left is wearing sunglasses, a white tank top with pink writing, black shorts, and tan boots, holding a beer. The woman on the right has tattoos, wears large sunglasses, a green patterned vest, and green pants, with a gold necklace. There are clothes hanging on a clothesline in the background, including socks, underwear, and shirts. The setting is sunny with a relaxed, festive atmosphere.
A black and white photo of a couple dressed in traditional attire, holding each other closely outdoors, with their noses touching and eyes closed.
Two women standing on a modern, curved staircase with glass railing inside a building with large window panels and sheer curtains.
Black and white photo of a woman hugging a man, both dressed in whimsical and eclectic clothing, with the woman wearing a ruffled outfit and the man in a patterned shirt and hat with tulle decorations, on an outdoor street with steam or fog around them.
A woman wearing a veil and glasses is pushing a man with a mustache sitting in a shopping cart on a street, with parked cars and houses in the background.
Two people with sunglasses sitting on the ground near a chain-link fence, with a dog standing behind them. One person has curly dark hair and the other person is bald with a mustache. All are wearing matching brown outfits with white and dark stripes.
Two young women with tattoos sitting on a sidewalk against a concrete wall. The woman in front is wearing white pants, a white tank top with the words 'full death,' and black shoes, holding a cigarette. The woman behind her is wearing black shorts, a black top, and black sunglasses, with smoke escaping her mouth.
A man and a woman are taking a selfie at a party. The man is wearing sunglasses and a colorful shirt, and the woman has shoulder-length hair, bright makeup, and a green headband. They are making playful expressions and sticking out their tongues. The background has a chalkboard with writing that says 'Happy' and some hearts and lines, and there are pink and purple lights.
A woman with long, wavy hair and makeup, wearing a sparkly pink dress and a feathered pink coat, tasting a slice of pizza in a dimly lit room with graffiti on the wall.
A person with orange hair, wearing a yellow headband and sequined outfit, drinks from a straw while another person with glasses and short hair, wearing a mask, holds a bowl of popcorn in a dimly lit, red neon-lit room.
Two people dressed in costumes, one wearing a fur coat and a large hat, and the other with long hair and a headscarf, standing face to face in a narrow, yellow-walled room with a window overhead.
A man in a colorful hat and a woman in a blue headscarf share a toast at a table in a cozy setting with a brick wall and green vines in the background.
Two individuals dressed in flamboyant, vintage clothing standing outside a convenience store, with the store sign reading "Convenience Store" and a neon "Open" sign visible. One person is wearing a large blue hat, pink furry coat, red lace dress, and sunglasses, eating a candy. The other is wearing a red suit, large black hat, sunglasses, and jewelry, holding a snack.
Actors performing in a theatrical play with ornate costumes and makeup, centered around a shirtless man with elaborate ruffles on his chest, surrounded by others in period costumes with gray wigs, in front of a decorated stage background.